Straighten it or let it be??

This nite, we gathered around and visit one friend, coz we din see her lately, and we just knew not long ago, why she din come out just bcoz family gt problem, her mother got breast cancer, and she keep it as a secret. Now we knew secretly, and wanted to give her support, so we go to her hse and ask her out, as a belated birthday excuse.

So we went out and hv our dinner near her hse, then we din chat much, coz other friend of mine ask her friend out to see our hair... She is a hairstylist in Snips, and she has helped my friend to styled her hair, and my frend new hair style look quite nice also. So now, my friend introduce her to my another friend, cuz she want to create a new look, then i ask my friend whether can see my hair as well and give me some advice.

So, first eye she look at my hair, she said

wah this one ah, dun straighten also cannot la!!

erm.... but rebonding too expensive and need lotsa treatment, i dunno whether it can last long or not, coz i am afraid if i rebond it, ok it will b straight, bt then i might look like a "queen of Egypt" (in mandarin "ai ji wang hou" coz queen in egypt, their hair look too flat, very ugly) beside looking like the queen of Egypt, after several months, my hair grow long, then new hair will be curly bt the old hair too straight... so conflict in between my hair .... very ugly also.

Then i ask lots of question, what can i do with my hair if i dun wan to straighten it.

if u dun wan to straighten it, then curl it lo....

then my frends said wah she curl for so many yrs aldi, still want to curl meh

last time i hv suggested, coz i am too frust with my curly, fuzzy hair ... look so damn messy. I told my friend if one day i get frust, i go to bomb my hair .... new look, then dun hv to follow the trend for straightening my hair.

but then, bomb my hair... my hair all dead la, means i am murdering my hair, and i might be bald too if i spoil them!!!

So, very hard very hard.... i hv no option to do to my hair except for straighten it or curl it (a more tidy curl)

Then i ask her if i dun wan to do rebonding, bt yet i want to have a new look, wat can i do?

Nah, nothing i can do, you can either curl it or straighten it

I knew hairstylist will say this kind of stuff to their customer, but i consider this conversation more on information rather than profit goal conversation.

Then i ask if i do rebonding, how am i going to last it, coz i can't do another in 6 months time (they suggest to do rebonding twice a yr to maintain the straightness)

then we have a set of shampoo n conditioner, that set is for straighten the hair

Oh well, that set quite expensive ... RM179 for one set.

It is all about money, money, money, and i desperately no money to do such thing, and i know my mom won't pay for me ( i asked her that nite, then she said "i dun hv the money to pay for u, if u want, u pay for urself la)

aih .... now wat todo.... i hv attended a nite of hair lesson....

RM200 for the rebonding+treatment+cut

So how now .... i am still thinking abt it, and whenever i went, if i saw girls hairs with that kind of style that she suggested to style for me.... it is quite weird to stare at other ppl, and i scared they might think i am les... hahaha

Ok, i'll wait until my frend straighten her hair, and see how the quality is .... she is going to do it on 6th dec ...

BUt i am still thinking ... thinking ... thinking...